5 things that can make your life always calmer than other people.
MUSLIMKAFFAH- Living quietly and avoiding many problems is what many people dream of. Here are 5 simple ways to make life always calmer.
Every human being would want a quiet life and away from the
noise of problems. But in reality, problems keep coming and going.
It is very human if sometimes we feel that the problems we
are experiencing are very heavy and make us think we can no longer get through
them.
Overcoming this, there are actually basic things you can do
to make life calmer.
1. Be grateful even for the little things
The main key to living a calm life is to always be grateful
for whatever happens in life. Enjoying every gift of God with gratitude will
make us avoid feeling lacking.
Gratitude that continues to be buried in you will make you
always feel calm in living life. Keep in mind that everything is as it should
be.
Being grateful for every favor of Him even in every breath
is the first step you can take to achieve peace in life.
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2. Don't think too much about what other people say
Living in an intense social environment and always
communicating with one another. Of course it will be very difficult for us to
avoid criticism and other people's opinions about us.
Yes, it's true, not all criticism and comments from others
are constructive. However, as long as what you are doing doesn't harm others
around you, don't use negative criticism as pressure.
Just respond as necessary and prove that what is said is
completely untrue. Thus, your life will feel much calmer than having to serve
one by one what people say about you.
3. Be patient and sincere
Always be grateful, it will be more complete if it is
accompanied by always being patient and sincere. Be patient in living the
hardships of life, and sincerely accept every destiny and test in life.
Maybe we have heard this often and are even bored because it
doesn't change anything in life. Keep in mind again, that this is very human.
As it should be, you must remain patient and sincere even
though what happened was not at all what was expected. That way you can be more
relaxed about every possibility that will happen.
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4. Always think positive
The root of the problem that always makes life uneasy is the
emergence of many negative thoughts, even about something that is not certain
to happen though.
These negative thoughts will only make it difficult for you
to develop to be better, because what you want to do will be limited by these
bad thoughts.
Eliminating it, you just have to enjoy the journey of life
and always think positively will make our lives much more meaningful.
5. Stop comparing yourself to others
Feelings of unease often occur when looking at the
achievements of others. This arises because we are too busy comparing the
achievements of others
with what we are going through. However, it should be
remembered that every human being has been chosen to carry out their respective
roles. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages.
The time allotted for success is also different for each
person. So, don't let your life become complicated and uneasy just because you
compare it with other people's lives.
reference : Muslimcreed
The five keys to a calm life above have been conveyed too
often. Start with small things first. Filter what you should pay attention to
and which you should ignore so that life will be much calmer because you don't
have to think about what you don't need to think about.
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